Healthy Relationship Concept 1: How Do Men and Women Bond?

Men and women bond very differently. Knowing this puts you in charge in your relationship and will allow you to have a healthy relationship. Your relationship will be a healthy relationship in the sense that the two of you love each other and treat each other with love. If you are a man, knowing how to bond with your wife will allow you to connect with her and increase the love that she has for you. As your wife grows to love you more, you will in turn love her more.Men and women bond very differently. Knowing this puts you in charge in your relationship and will allow you to have a healthy relationship. Your relationship will be a healthy relationship in the sense that the two of you love each other and treat each other with love. If you are a man, knowing how to bond with your wife will allow you to connect with her and increase the love that she has for you. As your wife grows to love you more, you will in turn love her more.
The same goes for women. If you as a woman understand how men bond, you will be able to get closer to your husband. As you grow closer the love you have for each other will increase.
How do men bond? Typically, men don’t bond by sharing feelings or emotions. It does not mean that men can’t share feelings, it is something that does not come easily to them.
Men bond by sharing experiences. For instance, men can go to a sporting event, yell and cheer for their team and not say more than 20 words to each other the entire time. Whether or not their team wins or loses those men will have bonded because they were there together enjoying the game. That is how men bond. They bond by sharing experiences together.
Women on the other hand, bond by sharing their feelings. It makes them happy to be able to share what is on their mind and what they feel inside. Women feel good about themselves as they are able to share what they feel and have others share with them how they feel.
What does this mean for men? It means that knowing that your wife bonds by sharing feelings will allow the two of you to grow closer together. By taking time to listen to your wife you validate her. You let her know that she is important and that you value her as a person. Sharing your feelings says to her that you trust her. You tell her that you view her as a friend and a confidante.
What does this mean for women? It means that knowing your husband bonds by sharing experiences will allow you to spend time with him and just enjoy his company. He will love you for it. He will appreciate you for understanding him.
What does this in turn mean for both of you? It means learning to compromise. Men need to understand that they must be willing to share their feelings more than they do. It does not mean abandoning your manhood. It means you understand that you demonstrate to your wife you love her by listening and sharing.
Women need to understand that their husbands can and should be willing to share and listen. Women also need to understand that most men will never be as sharing and open up as their best friend or their sister.
Knowing this information will allow you to know what you need to do in order to bond and grow closer together. The result will be a healthy relationship.
The same goes for women. If you as a woman understand how men bond, you will be able to get closer to your husband. As you grow closer the love you have for each other will increase.
How do men bond? Typically, men don’t bond by sharing feelings or emotions. It does not mean that men can’t share feelings, it is something that does not come easily to them.
Men bond by sharing experiences. For instance, men can go to a sporting event, yell and cheer for their team and not say more than 20 words to each other the entire time. Whether or not their team wins or loses those men will have bonded because they were there together enjoying the game. That is how men bond. They bond by sharing experiences together.
Women on the other hand, bond by sharing their feelings. It makes them happy to be able to share what is on their mind and what they feel inside. Women feel good about themselves as they are able to share what they feel and have others share with them how they feel.
What does this mean for men? It means that knowing that your wife bonds by sharing feelings will allow the two of you to grow closer together. By taking time to listen to your wife you validate her. You let her know that she is important and that you value her as a person. Sharing your feelings says to her that you trust her. You tell her that you view her as a friend and a confidante.
What does this mean for women? It means that knowing your husband bonds by sharing experiences will allow you to spend time with him and just enjoy his company. He will love you for it. He will appreciate you for understanding him.
What does this in turn mean for both of you? It means learning to compromise. Men need to understand that they must be willing to share their feelings more than they do. It does not mean abandoning your manhood. It means you understand that you demonstrate to your wife you love her by listening and sharing.
Women need to understand that their husbands can and should be willing to share and listen. Women also need to understand that most men will never be as sharing and open up as their best friend or their sister.
Knowing this information will allow you to know what you need to do in order to bond and grow closer together. The result will be a healthy relationship.

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