Sex isn’t everything, in fact I am of the opinion that sex is overrated, because it has so been glorified by both sexes, the girls would say if you love me you won’t pressure me to have sex with you, this then make the guys want it more.
Despite all of these, one cannot rule out the importance of sex in any relationship. Sex is meant to be an expression of ones emotions and feeling with passion, when done with the right person at the right time, it can play a huge role in strengthening what they already have.
If you keep denying your partner sex and you don’t act loyal to him, he may start thinking you just cheating on him, the only way you can get away with this, is only if you are a virgin, and if you lie that you are, the day he finds out, you are going to see the worst reaction ever.
In today’s world, no matter how strong your love may be for each other, without sex, that relationship becomes vulnerable, especially when one partner has a higher sex drive than the other. Research has shown that, aside money, and house work, sex is one of the main reasons why couples argue.
To have a positive relationship, both partners must talk about sex, and agree on sex in the relationship or not. Even before you agree to start a relationship, make this known to him, tell him you are not going to have sex with him in the relationship. Don’t just wake up one morning and tell him you are not interested in sex, he may become angry with you and use this as an opportunity to cheat on you.
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