Men and women bond very differently. Knowing this puts you in charge in your relationship and will allow you to have a healthy relationship. Your relationship will be a healthy relationship in the sense that the two of you love each other and treat each other with love. If you are a man, knowing how to bond with your wife will allow you to connect with her and increase the love that she has for you. As your wife grows to love you more, you will in turn love her more.Men and women bond very differently. Knowing this puts you in charge in your relationship and will allow you to have a healthy relationship. Your relationship will be a healthy relationship in the sense that the two of you love each other and treat each other with love. If you are a man, knowing how to bond with your wife will allow you to connect with her and increase the love that she has for you. As your wife grows to love you more, you will in turn love her more.

The same goes for women. If you as a woman understand how men bond, you will be able to get closer to your husband. As you grow closer the love you have for each other will increase.

How do men bond? Typically, men don’t bond by sharing feelings or emotions. It does not mean that men can’t share feelings, it is something that does not come easily to them.

Men bond by sharing experiences. For instance, men can go to a sporting event, yell and cheer for their team and not say more than 20 words to each other the entire time. Whether or not their team wins or loses those men will have bonded because they were there together enjoying the game. That is how men bond. They bond by sharing experiences together.

Women on the other hand, bond by sharing their feelings. It makes them happy to be able to share what is on their mind and what they feel inside. Women feel good about themselves as they are able to share what they feel and have others share with them how they feel.

What does this mean for men? It means that knowing that your wife bonds by sharing feelings will allow the two of you to grow closer together. By taking time to listen to your wife you validate her. You let her know that she is important and that you value her as a person. Sharing your feelings says to her that you trust her. You tell her that you view her as a friend and a confidante.

What does this mean for women? It means that knowing your husband bonds by sharing experiences will allow you to spend time with him and just enjoy his company. He will love you for it. He will appreciate you for understanding him.

What does this in turn mean for both of you? It means learning to compromise. Men need to understand that they must be willing to share their feelings more than they do. It does not mean abandoning your manhood. It means you understand that you demonstrate to your wife you love her by listening and sharing.

Women need to understand that their husbands can and should be willing to share and listen. Women also need to understand that most men will never be as sharing and open up as their best friend or their sister.

Knowing this information will allow you to know what you need to do in order to bond and grow closer together. The result will be a healthy relationship.

The same goes for women. If you as a woman understand how men bond, you will be able to get closer to your husband. As you grow closer the love you have for each other will increase.

How do men bond? Typically, men don’t bond by sharing feelings or emotions. It does not mean that men can’t share feelings, it is something that does not come easily to them.

Men bond by sharing experiences. For instance, men can go to a sporting event, yell and cheer for their team and not say more than 20 words to each other the entire time. Whether or not their team wins or loses those men will have bonded because they were there together enjoying the game. That is how men bond. They bond by sharing experiences together.

Women on the other hand, bond by sharing their feelings. It makes them happy to be able to share what is on their mind and what they feel inside. Women feel good about themselves as they are able to share what they feel and have others share with them how they feel.

What does this mean for men? It means that knowing that your wife bonds by sharing feelings will allow the two of you to grow closer together. By taking time to listen to your wife you validate her. You let her know that she is important and that you value her as a person. Sharing your feelings says to her that you trust her. You tell her that you view her as a friend and a confidante.

What does this mean for women? It means that knowing your husband bonds by sharing experiences will allow you to spend time with him and just enjoy his company. He will love you for it. He will appreciate you for understanding him.

What does this in turn mean for both of you? It means learning to compromise. Men need to understand that they must be willing to share their feelings more than they do. It does not mean abandoning your manhood. It means you understand that you demonstrate to your wife you love her by listening and sharing.

Women need to understand that their husbands can and should be willing to share and listen. Women also need to understand that most men will never be as sharing and open up as their best friend or their sister.

Knowing this information will allow you to know what you need to do in order to bond and grow closer together. The result will be a healthy relationship.

Many guys in their early 'teens' feel uncomfortable when just starting to date. They are not sure of what is expected of them on a 'date'. They are afraid that the girl will not like him, and he thinks he would rather not date, than be rejected. You are not alone in these feelings, and this article is meant to help all teenage guys who need advice to date successfully.

Steps

1. 1
   Be Smart With Your Money. Always offer to pay for the date. This will make her feel you like her more than your money. If she declines and would rather go Dutch (splitting the bill), go with what she wants. Don't take it personally.
2. 2
   Don't Be Crude. Girls want to feel like respected human beings, not sex objects.
3. 3
   Be yourself. She decided to go out with you and not some other guy for a reason. Whatever you do, don't mislead her about who you are in any way, shape or form - it'll come back to bite you later.
4. 4
   Practice chivalry. Offer to carry her books for her, open doors for her (especially when she is getting in and out of your car), and call her parents Mr. and Mrs. when you meet them.
5. 5
   Dress like a young man. This doesn't mean you shouldn't have your own style - on the contrary. But when a boy becomes a teenager, his body changes, and you need to dress a little differently to look your age - you will impress a girl more if you look as mature as your age. This means tidying yourself up throughout the day - make sure you are clean and not wrinkled, and that your hair is looking good. Wear a belt regardless of whether your shirt is tucked in or not. As a boy ages, he usually loses some of the "curve" of a boy's frame, and that's why most grown men you see are wearing a belt! You'll get used to the tighter feeling. Also, make sure your clothes fit well and are appropriate for the occasion. Consider being trendy, but be yourself too. Develop a style, but remember that men generally have less options than women and, though the world has changed, men are still expected to dress a certain way, especially for fancier occasions. So if you're going out, dress a little nicer than you would if you were lazing away a weekend. But, you must have your own style and individuality.
6. 6
   Talk to her. Let her know some of your interests, in movies or books or music. This is always a good way to start a conversation. It will be easy for her to reply on one of the subjects mentioned. If you have a class with her, then mention something about that class. She will come back with either she did not notice you in class, or will mention that she did notice you. This way the conversation can be woven around the class, and will go from there.
7. 7
   Give her compliments. Compliment how she looks, which is always appreciated, but also compliment her on other things, such as her abilities in art or sports. If she is a nice girl, truly, tell her so. It is important not to lie for the sake of giving a compliment, however, because a girl usually knows what she truly is worthy of being complimented for and will feel patronized if she catches on that you are lying.
8. 8
   Keep the conversation dynamic. Do not talk only about yourself, ask her about things that interest her, her hobbies, friends, what matters most to her. If she asks you a question about yourself, answer, then say something like, "What about you?" in order to avoid monopolizing conversation. This will also help you learn more about her.
9. 9
   Show her that you are interested in her in a subtle way. Smile when either of you speak, make eye contact consistently, especially when sitting at a table having a bite to eat, always look directly at her when she talks to you. It is irritating and annoying to talk to someone while they scan the room with their eyes or turn around to look at someone who just walked by. It shows a total lack of interest in whatever she is talking about and makes her feel that you are not interested either in her, or what she is saying.
10. 10
    React to her. If she is not reacting well to the date, does not want to hold hands when you try, or does not converse easily, then back off for awhile. If however, she just looks bored and not interested in you, cut the date short, and take her home. It's okay, and it's not your fault. Remember, this is just practice, and with enough practice, every date will go very well.
11. 11
    Smile. It will show her you're having fun and that you genuinely like her.

Tips

• Girls will constantly test you; keep your confidence and frame of mind and don't let their little things bother you. BE STRONG
• Always be polite to her parents or family members if you might meet them. When they talk to you, be sure to answer them, not ignore them. If the parents don't like you, chances are you won't be seeing her again.
• Keep in mind that most are just as nervous as you are.
• Learn when it's OK to break these rules, but wait until you're experienced.
• If you're unsure about any part of your date, consult with a female friend of the about same age as your companion. Better safe than sorry!
• If you have liked/crushed on the girl for a long time, sometimes mentioning the little things you did to get her attention will be 'cute' to her. -note- this entirely depends on the type of girl and generally isn't recommended unless things are going really well, or its the 2nd/3rd date.
• Don't be pushy or bossy. Do not demand you go to a particular restaurant or a movie. Tell her where you would like to go and ask if she would enjoy joining you, preferably beforehand. If she says no, then ask where she would like to go.
• When considering what to do for your date, it's best to think of a few options for activities or locations and then let your date decide among them. This shows the girl that you've taken initiative but that you've still left her a choice to make.
• Don't make fun of her or her friends and family. By talking about someone else, it shows her that when she is not with you, you might be talking about her.
• A little showing off is alright if it's done in good fun. If you're cocky, you push it, or you overstep any boundaries here, you will come off as a complete moron. Watch it.

Avoid

• Don't make fun of her. This will only make her uncomfortable, hurt her feelings, or maybe make her think you're a jerk. Brief, gentle teasing is OK and can be fun for both of you, but only if she knows you are joking. If she thinks you are being mean or trying to hurt her, she won't see you again. So feel free to playfully jest with her and enjoy the ribbing if she catches you with a riposte, but don't let it escalate to actual verbal dueling.
• Be nice! Girls love it when guys are mature and sweet, even around their friends.
• Don't date a girl just for her body. The relationship will not be rewarding for either of you.
• Never touch her in any way that could be interpreted as pushy, especially the butt or breasts.
• • Watch how you spend your money: go easy on gifts. If you purchase lots of things for her she may find you too easy and would feel it's OK to use you only for your money.
• If you do not actually care about this girl, don't bother. It's a waste of your time to date a girl that you don't genuinely care about.
• Never stare at any part of her anatomy other than her eyes. Even if you don't think that it could be offensive, it could make her very uncomfortable.
• Remember not all girls are the same! The girl you are with now may enjoy certain things more than a girl you have dated previously. Get to know her before assuming things.

Dating is part of life and what builds the world, and every body wants to have a successful dating. In my previous article I have list some great singles dating tips/marriage tips that will guarantee building a strong relationship, here are some of the resourceful articles you can read:


And more dating tips but here I will be sharing dating tips for men, because people think is only women that need dating tips but I will tell you men needs the best singles dating tips most: Here is the best dating tips men should hold on while going out for a date:

1.Putting up your best foot. This simply means that looking clean and neat will earn you extra point and a chance of winning you date over. To look clean does not mean buy clothes upon clothes but simply ironing, combing your hair, best color combination attire. The summary of this dating single tips for men is looking smart.

2. Always be confident. As it is very simple and easy for a woman to spot if you are very confident or not, so to build confident you have to first be yourself, then you will see yourself flowing and making every sentence and action matters without sweating or stammering.

3.Start reading and keep reading. The best thing is to keep up to date reading novels, magazine this will help you pick the best word to use. Your terms matters, as it will tell your date (girl) that you are extra ordinary somebody and always up to date with the current and trending happenings.

4. Be polite and respectful. What every woman wants is to be respected and be treated kindly as very important person. Just give then the best behavior and praise and you will surely win their hearts and start a real dating relationship with her.

5. The old fashion dating/romantic trick. As will all know the old best dating tips is to learn how to dance. Dancing still remains the sweetest thing a guy could do to a girl and the easiest way to hold her close. This old dating trick never fail, learn how to dance and on the dating day, ask her for a dance. Make sure you dance romantically.

Sex isn’t everything, in fact I am of the opinion that sex is overrated, because it has so been glorified by both sexes, the girls would say if you love me you won’t pressure me to have sex with you, this then make the guys want it more.

Despite all of these, one cannot rule out the importance of sex in any relationship. Sex is meant to be an expression of ones emotions and feeling with passion, when done with the right person at the right time, it can play a huge role in strengthening what they already have.

If you keep denying your partner sex and you don’t act loyal to him, he may start thinking you just cheating on him, the only way you can get away with this, is only if you are a virgin, and if you lie that you are, the day he finds out, you are going to see the worst reaction ever.

In today’s world, no matter how strong your love may be for each other, without sex, that relationship becomes vulnerable, especially when one partner has a higher sex drive than the other. Research has shown that, aside money, and house work, sex is one of the main reasons why couples argue.

To have a positive relationship, both partners must talk about sex, and agree on sex in the relationship or not. Even before you agree to start a relationship, make this known to him, tell him you are not going to have sex with him in the relationship. Don’t just wake up one morning and tell him you are not interested in sex, he may become angry with you and use this as an opportunity to cheat on you.

To do this you must be using body language.

• Look at them. Not too much, but enough to make eye contact at least once. Studies show that making eye contact with one person three times usually leaves them open to being approached.

• Become friends with their friends, and leave good impressions. Their friends may then indirectly comment on what a good person you are, invoking their interest.

 

• Find out what they're interested and leave things related to that around you. They'll notice. For example, if they're into making homemade jewelry, make a necklace yourself and then wear it. If they're into motorbikes, wear a shirt with a motorbike on it.

 

Tips

• Smile! They'll be less afraid of approaching you first if they see you're a good person.
• Try not to make it to obvious you like them just be yourself with a smile on your face.
• Don't look at them TOO much or they will think you like them.

Avoid

• Don't appear to try too hard. If it's not working, maybe you should try a different tactic, as in actually talking to them.
• Don't obsess over them. They may take your behavior as stalkerish.

Hey you guys, have you ever wondered how to get the girl of your dreams. But she really didn't know you were alive? You got what it takes with just a lil tip and techniques, all you need is self confidence (just gather the moral)  This article will tell you more.Detailed instructions after the jump mo

 

 Steps

1. Learn about what she likes.
   • When you see that girl and you try and talk to her don't drop out and start talking stuff that she does not care about.
   • You need to talk about stuff you both like and stuff you both enjoy, but remember it's all about her.
    
3. Always make sure your mouth smells fresh.
   • Hold mints, gum, or anything else that will keep your mouth fresh for that kiss you will hopefully get (and more) after you read this article.
4. Get her attention.
   
   • When you want something you go after it so no matter what. Keep your head up.
   • Lightly bump her by mistake and as soon as you bump her say, "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to bump you."
   • Hopefully she will think that you are nice so tell her that she looks very nice that day then tell her your name (1st and last).
5. Make the move.
   • Now it is time for you to make your big move. Once you guys talk and are good friends ask her for her favourite color. If she asks you that same thing after you, then answer and go for it.
   • Ask her if she likes you. If she says yes, then you have a new girlfriend.

Men, is your dating life DOA? Not to worry! These top-secret tips from NYC's #1 professional matchmaker will put the "life" back in your love:

1) Don't be a douchebag! Yes, it's true that ladies loooove douchebags - but they love non-douchebags even more! You can get plenty of trashy booty by acting like a jerk, but if you're interested in some seriously high-class love, acting like a decent, considerate guy will skyrocket your love life to a new dimension.
2) Expand your horizons! Have you gotten complacent about dating women of your own race? There's a whole world of color out there - why not incorporate some into your dating life? In other words, try a new hue!
3) Pick up that phone! Texting's fun, and it can get pretty steamy - but if you really want to blow a woman out of the water, pick up the phone, call her and have a conversation. It'll make your sexting that much hotter…
4) Go veg! Everyone knows the HOTTEST ladies these days are vegan or vegetarian, and they want veg men! If you go veg, you'll have the corner on the hot veg chick market - milk it! (Or, if you opt for vegan, soy milk it!)
5) Fix things! Or at least pretend you can. Nothing turns on a woman like a handy man.
6) NO cross-dressing - ever! No matter how hipster or artsy your lady is, no matter how much she says she's into pushing gender boundaries, your woman does not want you in a dress. Not even on Halloween!
7) NO crying (at least in the beginning)! Yes, women like emotionally sensitive guys. But too much too fast is a turn-off, so hold back on the tears for at least the first three dates.
8) NO mooching! In other words, don't hit the restroom when the check comes. Ever!
9) NO mock turtlenecks! And you guessed it - not even on Halloween.
And last but NOT least - pay close attention, guys…
10) Go on a date! You got her number, your sexting's been amazing, you've even chatted with her on the phone. Great stuff - but THAT'S NOT DATING! How to effect an actual date experience? Set a specific day, a specific time, a specific place - and show up. That's a date! You'll end up leaps and bounds ahead of all those other guys who are clueless about the "dating" part of dating. And you'll find that dates can actually be the most rewarding part of the dating adventure.